Simple Ways to Influence People and Make Yourself Their Favorite

Nov 04, 2019 By Kayode Oseh

Everyone admire those who have the ability to influence others but how to posses such a power for our own self is something we really don't know how to go about. To some people, charisma is a thing of gift that one is naturally born with while to others is something you can easily develop by your own self. But whichever way you see it to be, getting people by your side and making them like you is not that difficult to achieve. According to psychologists, these are powers one can easily posses without having to do much if only one can master some few tricks.

Below are simple tips you can use to win peoples heart and make them like you.

Don't Criticize 

Daisaku Ikeda writes: β€œIt is much more valuable to look for the strength in others. You cannot gain anything by criticizing their imperfections.” This is actually very correct. People will be more attracted to you when they feel your sense of approval of them regardless of whichever way they look or their societal status.

Be Generous With Praise

There is absolutely no one who doesn't like praises. When you genuinely praise people without flattery, you give them a sense of joy and at the same time boost their self confident. And who would not like that?  

Become genuinely interested in others.

Dale Carnegie writes:  "You can make more friends in two months by being interested in them, than in two years by making them interested in you."

Making one know that you are interested in them makes them feel special. The only way to make quality, lasting friendships is to learn to be genuinely interested in others and their interests. Learn to make people talk more about themselves because this will actually prove to them that you really are interested in them.

Make People Feel Important 

Smiling, knowing people's names, giving them praises and making an effort to know their interests make people feel important. If you make people feel important, how you walk through the world will be an exponentially more pleasant and incredible experience.

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