am I right? And when they are online they want to
relax and are forgetting to be efficient. They
only want to stay there, in front of the computer
and wait for women to make the first step. Even
worse, they don’t bother to completely fill their
profiles or just spill out a few words. Are you
one of these types?
So let’s see what women believe when they are
reading your online profile. The frequent
sentences what you can find in men’s profiles are:
-"Just contact me and you won’t regret." and now
what she thinks when she’s reading this: "What???
Next!!!"
-"I am the best and I am waiting for you." she
thinks "Yeah sure, next!"
-"Who wants to know more about me just ask." or "
If you want me just try your chance." she thinks "
Why I would like to know more about you? You are
nobody to me." The problem is that you are not
giving her any reason, any impulse to contact YOU.
She is browsing profiles, why should she stop
from doing that? - "You will find more about me
later." she is thinking "Really? Just wait for me!
Next."
The key of attracting attention to a woman is to
talk about her. You can do this from the very
beginning by making a profile that is addressed
to HER.
So be specific saying what you are really looking
for. Say the things that are most important for
you, the area where you would like to live with
your next girlfriend, the age etc. Writing
something like: "I am a serious guy, looking for
a blond haired woman, living in Pennsylvania,
aged 30 - 42 years. I love children so it doesn’t
bother me if you are a mother." you will make all
the difference. All women that accomplish these
criteria will stop browsing another profiles
thinking: "Wow, he is looking for me. I am the
best for him". You can say something about you
too, but something positive and interesting.
Something that would make her STOP searching. "I
want three things in my life: to love, to be
loved and a real family." Keep in mind that it is
more important what you are looking for than who
you are. It is sad but true (excepting if you are
a doomy, alcoholic, unclean, crazy guy).
So, improve your profile today if you want a full
of messages inbox, tomorrow!
