Here are 10 tips to help in your quest for love online:
1. Create an introduction of yourself designed to attract the opposite sex. Don’t overdo it, put just the necessary information about yourself, and keep from revealing too much personal information. This is for your protection.
2. Avoid using too many adjectives in your profile. Keep descriptions basic and simple. Remember you are as much a stranger to others as they are to you.
3. List your interests and include specific details. If you write about a hobby, hiking for example, list specific places where you’ve hiked, or the hiking clubs you’ve joined.
4. Create a unique identity on the web. The online dating system is full of profiles that say almost the exact same thing. If you imitate this, you’ll be lost in the crowd. Always maintain your individuality to create an effective online dating presence.
5. Leave the clichés to everyone else. Be creative enough so that you get attention and are able to experience what online dating is all about. But try to be as original, and sincere as you can.
6. Try not to brag, or brag too much. You won’t impress anyone with a rude attitude. Self-confidence is fine, but excessive bragging is definitely a TURN-OFF. If you’re good looking that will show in your photo, you have no need to use these words in your profile. If you claim intelligence, then be sure that your grammar is impeccable and your diction flawless.
7. Nobody responds to negativity. It’s not a good idea for depressed, lonely, frustrated or those just out of an unhappy relationship to plunge right into dating online since the negative emotions are likely to surface. People will shy away from reading your melodramatic profile. Online dating is supposed to be fun, not depressing.
8. Keep from defining yourself by people you DON’T want to meet. It is enough that your profile says you don’t want to meet somebody who is a liar, who is overweight or who is chronically unemployed. It is not necessary to over emphasize the matter by using this to introduce yourself to others.
9. Never forget to spell-check. You can do this by writing your profile in a word document, spell-checking it, then cutting and pasting the text into the profile area of the dating website.
10. Tell the truth as much as possible. However, reveal only information that won’t harm you in any way. Tell people about who you really are, the type of work you do, your family background, etc. But, for your safety avoid mentioning information regarding how much money you make, or how many businesses you own, as well as any information of this nature that could be used to harm or defraud you.
