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The Ins And Outs Of Gwen Stefani's Relationships


Gwen Stefani has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Gwen out for help, sympathy or advice. Gwen Stefani is always willing to overlook others' faults, and she sometimes overdoes her charitableness. Also, Gwen Stefani feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Gwen Stefani is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Gwen Stefani also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.

Gwen Stefani responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around her, and can be dominated by her fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Stefani often appears irrational to others because she cannot always explain the reason or source of her feelings. Anyone who lives with Gwen Stefani must accept her ups and downs and appreciate Gwen's need for times of withdrawal.

Gwen Stefani is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Gwen Stefani takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though she may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, she never forgets it.

She depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large family of friends that care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Gwen's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them powerfully influence her sense of security and happiness. Gwen Stefani may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

Gwen is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Stefani places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.