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The Ins And Outs Of Mika's Relationships

Mika is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about fulfilling his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Mika; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong. In general, Mika has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people he cares about. His relationships to his mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in his life are likely to be incredibly close and intense. Furthermore, Mika may easily be manipulated too when it comes to one of these important relationships because he is so emotionally invested in it.
Mika shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Mika's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Mika also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Mika is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations.
Mika likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well. Open and generous, Mika enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Mica Penniman rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down and he always expects a better, brighter future. Mika often tries to cheer up or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved. Friendship means a great deal to Mica Penniman, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Mika to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Mika's aspirations and ideals. Mika also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Mika often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the real world. Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Mika is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of. His love feelings are easily aroused and his romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Mica Penniman may be in and out of love relationships - especially in his younger years. Mika craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so he may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Mica Penniman, and he is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment make Mika very happy. Mika wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his artistic gifts or loving generosity.