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9 Secrets to Get a Date After One Hour and 15 Minutes of Flirting Online!

If you are trying to pick up women online and
just can't get at least one date a week you
certainly need a little help. Just read this
article and start using these online flirting
success tips and they will help you to get that
first date much faster.You don't want to spend
too much time online because you really can't
feel the chemistry until the first “real world”
date. However, you can get the women you're
talking to to be interested in you and set her “
on fire” just to get to know you better.Keep in
mind that women feel attraction for a very
different set of reasons than men do. Where men
focus more on looks, women focus more on
personality, self esteem, power and confidence.
So, what are the secrets to get a date after one
hour and 15 minutes of flirting online?
1. Make your replies simple and use easy
questions. Concentrate on the conversation, not
on getting a date. Remember that flirting is a
way of connecting from the heart and
acknowledging someone. Most women want to know
what kind of person they are going out with.
2. Women always fall for men who are a little bit
unreachable. Think of yourself as special and
know what you deserve.
3. Be yourself. The underlying key to all
flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that
makes others want to get to know you.
4. Be funny but in the same time a little bit
arrogant. It creates a wonderful, entertaining
challenge that women just love to engage in...
If you make a naughty, fun comment, something she
is NOT expecting, then something magical begins
to happen: she feels a spark of attraction,
curiosity, intrigue because you're obviously
different.
5. People like people who are interested in them.
So when you engage someone in conversation make
sure you spend at least 62% of the time listening
to THEM!
6.When you are talking about you, tell enough
just to get her trust but keep a little mystery
about you.

7. Never ever make yourself to available. In one
hour of online conversation you have to make her
believe that you're confident, that you're
intelligent and funny. Don't stay any longer or
you risk to become boring.
8. Find an excuse and just go, but not before you
let her know that you're interested in her. Set
another online date but not for the next day. You
are a busy guy! Let her heat up a little bit. :)
9. At the second date (online), after 15 minutes
of talking, just say “Hey, I have some spare time
this evening, can we meet? I just want to...
convince myself that you are real.” This way, she
will be surprised and won't have to much time to
make the decision and you will run less risk of
being rejected. If she is interested in you but
she already has something fixed for that evening,
she will ask for a date another time. If she don'
t, just say, next!
Good luck and have fun!