In love relationships and romance, it is important for Hilary Duff to be able to deeply respect her partner. Hilary looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth or lack thereof, before she lets herself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamor or flashiness is something of a turn-off to her. Hilary Duff is capable of mature, lasting loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. She may be drawn to someone older than her. She wants an intellectual peer in her love relationships, an equal and a friend. She is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Hilary Duff appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.
Hilary Duff possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand her love partner. Because she values harmony so highly, Hilary Duff will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in her relationships. Hilary does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to smooth things over and even sweep them under the rug.
Hilary Duff has a very erotic and sexual nature and may often find herself drawn to another person by a kind of inner compulsion. Duff could become quite obsessed by someone and she has a tendency to control and manipulate her relationships.
Open and generous, Hilary Duff enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Duff rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Hilary always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. She often tries to cheer up or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Duff, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Hilary Duff to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Hilary's aspirations and ideals. Hilary Duff also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Hilary Duff very happy. Hilary wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Hilary Duff may be more involved in her career than in her private life.
Her attitude is positive and harmonious and Hilary Duff impresses others as a very caring individual. She is very friendly and pleasant when she is with other people and knows how to make herself popular. She has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Hilary sometimes lets her emotions overpower her reasoning and logic, and consequently she is sometimes biased in her opinions. Hilary Duff is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way she appears. Her feelings are on the surface and Hilary cannot hide her emotions.