Sometimes a person may tend to be shy and he may think that he will be judged at that moment once he asks for the phone number. There is nothing to be afraid of in asking the waitress’ phone number, as long as the person has good intentions. Here are some tips that can help a person on how to approach a girl when asking for her phone number.
1. The guy may get some information first regarding the name and some personal information on the waitress from her co-workers in the restaurant. He needs to make sure that the manager is not around. The manager may think that he is disturbing his employees.
2. He should know her friends in the restaurant. He can make friends with them as well so that it would be easier to get some information about the waitress that he likes.
3. He should exert the effort to visit the restaurant regularly where the waitress works. If he is a regular customer, the waitress may remember his face and even remember his name.
4. If the person is patient enough to wait until the restaurant closes, the waitress may have the idea that this person wants something from her and she may even make the initiative to ask questions if there is something the person would like to know.
5. This could be the right time for the person to introduce himself to the waitress and get her name as well, although the person already knows the name of the waitress. He can then tell her that he would like to make friends with her and she has nothing to worry about.
6. He has to make sure that he tells the waitress that he is a good person and his only intention is that he wants to get his phone number. A person should stay cool when he asks for the phone number. He must not show any excitement when asking for the number so that the waitress will not hesitate in giving his phone number.
7. The guy should let the waitress write the numbers on a piece of paper that the person prepared. He may tell her to write the numbers bigger and clearer. If the guy is using a cell phone, he can tell the waitress to dictate the numbers slowly then register the numbers on the phone. He should ask her to repeat the numbers that she has dictated to confirm that the numbers were correctly registered.
8. He must tell her his true intentions after getting the numbers. He should be honest in telling her that he wants to have a communication with her because he wants to know the waitress better. Through the telephone, there can be relationships that can be established especially when two people constantly contact each other.
9. He must ask the waitress on what time she will be available for a conversation. He should know the most convenient time to call the waitress. He should know if the waitress has some time to talk with him. Anyway, the waitress will not give the number if she has no time for it.
10. If there is an established communication on the phone. It could be the right time for the person to ask the waitress out for a date. He can assure himself that he would not be declined on his invitation because they may have no more hesitations to each other. They have already built a special relationship on the telephone.
There are times that a person needs to have the guts in confronting the waitress that he likes. He should have enough confidence because this is the key to get to know a girl better. Girls can find it impressing if they see strength and courage in a man. Asking a girls phone number is not a hard task to do. As long as there is a good intention and respect then there is nothing to worry about.
