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The Ins And Outs Of Ciara Harris' Relationships


Ciara Harris feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Ciara Harris has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. She is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature suffer. Because of her kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Harris for help, which she readily gives. Sometimes Harris' soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.

She is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of her feelings are vague and she cannot easily verbalize how she experiences life, music seems a natural language for Harris. She is also extremely romantic and often in love with love. She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Ciara does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Ciara Harris is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

Ciara Harris possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand her love partner. Because she values harmony so highly, Ciara Harris will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in her relationships. Ciara does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to sweep them under the rug.

In love relationships, Ciara Harris wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. She is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Ciara Harris appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person. Ciara is also attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Harris places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Ciara Harris often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something feels right or because she has always done it a certain way and she is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Harris thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Ciara is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Ciara Harris has good psychological insight into others.