with a lot of people. People whom we know or
maybe we just met for the first time.
Some of them are positive, optimist kind of
people; others can be in bad moods, nervous
crying or screaming for no reason at everyone
they met. Others are suspicious all the time and
doubt every single word you are saying. All of
them can influence our mood, our day and even our
life if we let them to do it.
The same thing is happening when you are meting
people online.
You can meet here thousands of people. This is a
good thing just because your chances to find a
compatible person to talk to are unlimited.
But till you find that special one you’re
supposed to talk and interact with dumb,
desperate, sad, nervous or not too serious people.
If you spend too much time with an inappropriate
person, it can have some bad influence on you and
your mood.
It is important to know to sort people you are
talking to online. If you realize that the person
you started to talk to is annoying you somehow,
just say that an old friend of you is now online
and that you want to discuss with him, or just
say Good Bye.
Another fact I have notice is that all of us are
tempted to discus our problems with unknown
people because we know that them can't tell our
problems to all of our friends.
My aunt use to say all the time: "Anyone will
give you an advice but nobody is going to give
you a slice of bread, when you most need it." She
meant to say that to talk is easy and everybody
is happy to tell you his/her opinion even for the
conversation’s sake but this doesn't mean that
they are really good friends and could be
superficial or not very good intended.
Some of them are telling you that what you are
doing is not a good thing because you going to
have to loose or you will suffer in the future or
other can give you all kinds of recipes meant to
solve your problems.
The idea is that if we are paying attention to
everyone around us, they can influence our life
in a dramatic way. I am saying this because no
one can know better than us what is happening in
our life and in our soul. Nobody can know better
than us what we really want to have, what is
missing, or where we want to be in our life.
Be precarious, listen advices but do not pay too
much attention and be the master of your life.
