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The Steps You Must Do To Succeed With Women

Have you seen that beautiful woman but been too afraid to approach her? You know the one I mean; there she is walking down a busy street, glancing in your direction.
The combination of attraction and paralysis is deadly. I know - I've been there.
Are you ready for the truth? This is going to blow your mind wide open.
Whether you want to find your dream girl and settle down in your country house with a white picket fence or just go home with a hot girl you meet at a club, you are only 4-simple-steps away from success.
It's the classic selling method. Master salesmen rely on this exact same easy-to-use 4-step process to sell their prospects in a matter of minutes...
Because it works like clockwork time-and-effortless-time-again.
These 4-steps are all you need to get started realizing your dreams of feminine conquest.
1. Prospecting - Before you get started, you need to take a few minutes to qualify your prospects. This is as simple as knowing what you want and honing in on your target like a heat-seeking ballistic missile. Figure out what you like and where you'll find it. Don't go looking for 20 something beautiful girls in an antique shop. You need to figure out where the girls are and go there.
You won't meet anyone sitting on the couch watching TV.
Once you find yourself in a situation where there are some beautiful women around, you need to pick the one you're most interested in approaching. Before you even approach try to make eye contact and smile. If she returns your smile, you're golden. If not, you might want to focus your efforts on someone else.
2. Approach - This is exactly what it sounds like. Once you select your target and get her in your crosshairs, you need to make her know that you're the one for her. Don't approach her with some slick line. Beautiful women have heard every line in the book and they are sick of it. A simple "Hi, my name is..." works better than any line ever could.
When it comes to approaching, remember that women aren't as shallow as men. Looks are not nearly as important to them. Confidence is the only thing that matters and by approaching without some tired line, you show her that you are confident in who you are.
3. Building A Connection - Have a conversation. You'll never get her to trust you enough to let down her guard if you can't have a conversation. Find out what she likes and latch onto it. Talk about what she's into. Ask lots of questions.
Genuine interest is helpful for two reasons: (1) It shows that you are interested in her... not just getting laid. (2) The quality of everything from dating to sex is going to be much much better if the two of you have something to talk about.
Do your homework and you'll be rewarded ten-fold.
4. Sealing The Deal - Salesmen call this "the closing." There is nothing more important than sealing the deal.
If you don't have the cojones to make evasive maneuvers... well, you just had a stimulating conversation and you'll probably end the night stimulating yourself. Just come out with it. Ask for her number. Say something like "I've gotta get going, but if you give me your number we can continue this conversation later."
Once you get her number leave. The longer you stick around the more likely you are to mess things up.
Yes, women want you to be with strong personality. Women want you to have the ability to protect them, yes, even the feminism, this is subconscious need.
You can show her your strong personality by saying big things. What do I mean when I say big things?
Big things should present your life as an adventure... It's can be everything, such as plans for life, your hobbies and much more...