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Some great tips on the Russian brides dating

So if you decided to find and even marry a Russian bride, you can do it in different ways. Of course, you can come to Russia or another former USSR country and start you search there or you can use a safe way by joining a dating site. Russian women prefer starting relationship in a classic manner of writing letters and then having some dates. So we'll discuss this entire option.


The first letter to a Russian bride

So, you decided to find your destiny with the help of a matchmaking service or some dating site. At the very beginning you should create your dating profile, where you must mention your real age, height, weight, education and occupation, your marital status. I advise you to post some of your photos as well. In your very first letter to your Russian lady you can write everything you think is worth mentioning in the first letter to an unknown person – this can be your life position, some aims and hopes, your interests, a description of person that your are looking for. The main thing you should always remember - just be yourself.


Discussion topics

Don't be afraid of expressing your feelings and thoughts: every Russian bride is very sensitive and emotional by her nature. You should certainly ask questions and answer hers in return. You can ask everything you think is important to know about her, you can ask how she spent last week as well and tell her what you did all this time. Write about everything you find interesting. Ask her advice on this or that matter or difficult situation in your life, share your plans for the future.


It 's absolutely logical to ask about how long the acquaintance by correspondence should last. On this matter you should retain the sense of proportion. On the one hand - long correspondence makes an opportunity to get to know each other better; on the other hand - Russian women don't like inert men and will find long correspondence rather annoying. Therefore you have to pick the crucial moment of transition to personal meeting intuitively. Then you should decide where your first date will take place - in her country, in your country or in any other country. Of course, it's more comfortable for you to have a meeting in your country – you'll feel yourself a master of the situation but for your beloved one it can be difficult to be in the unknown place with a man she hardly knows. Meeting in her country may seem like a better idea – she is at home and this fact will help her to be herself, you'l be able to learn something about the way she lives and her lifestyle. But the more fair variant is to meet in any other country – there both of you are in the same conditions and out of daily routine.


Russian lady in Love

Russian women in their love usually trust their hearts, not logical thinking. One may be a tall, handsome and wealthy fellow and still fail to attract a Russian lady's attention; the other one may be crazy about her and still fail to arouse a response in her. It does not mean she needs a man with physical or spiritual shortcomings. The thing is that she must fall in love with You and Only You and then you may count on all-conquering forgiveness and on absolute devotion.

Usually Russian girls sacrifice their career and their interests because of the family interests and needs. Devotion determines to a great extent the behavior of a Russian bride in love. For most Russian women the words of the church wedding rite 'I vow to stay with my husband in grief and joy until death separates us', are still the matter of current significance.


Russian girl and her husband

A married Russian woman arranges her life values like: children - husband - relatives - her home - her job. As you can see, husband plays one of the predominant roles in her life. Always he is a regular sexual partner. A Russian women nowadays, especially those over 25-30 years old, has certain problems with finding a man to establish permanent sexual relations with. So, the husband is everything to her. The fact that after the wedding the number of female friends of a young wife is considerably reduced proves the statement.