It is no news that they look for different things
in a relationship. They all want different things,
different men for their different personalities.
What do women want from men? There are as many
answers as there are types of women: young, old,
fat, skinny, talkative, quiet, beautiful, not so
beautiful.
One thing that is clear is that everyone looks
for a perfect relationship. Men are remarkable by
their caution and carefulness. Women though are
much more fussy. When it comes to choosing men,
they not only have a greater list of requirements,
they're also keen to make the effort to help the
guy change. But despite their striving for
talking things through, most men still struggle
to understand exactly what women need to be happy
with them.
What do women want? They just want to be happy
like us. They just have a different way to show
it. If you learn their language, listen when you’
d rather speak, hug instead of just walking away,
tell the truth till it hurts, be a man she can
depend on and love her like you love yourself.
You’ll no longer ask what women want, they’ll be
asking you what you want and give it to you.
Here are some true things that we can say safely
women want from men.
Value. Women want to know that their man is
someone other women would want. They want a
certain "gotta have" quality about their man.
This is why, when we go out with a girlfriend,
women give us looks and always seem more
interested. It’s annoying but true: the easiest
way to get a girl, is to have one already!
Structure. A woman wants stability, balance, a
sense of order. She wants someone she can rely on.
You say you’re going to be home at 9:00, you be
home at 9:00. You are late? Call. The hardest
thing for us guys is to differenciate between
support and total control. Creating a foundation
and stability doesn’t mean trying to solve all
the problems to the point you disempower the one
you love. Your love is not a crutch but a bond. A
bond where dependability is synonymous with trust.
Security. Women want to feel safe with a man.
They want to know that everyting’s gonna be all
right. This doesn’t mean you have to be huge and
strong, or have millions in the bank. It just
means you have to talk reassuringly to her, look
after her safety, and assure her when she needs
it that things are going to be OK.
Love . Love them most of all. Let it all out. Let
it all out every day, every minute of every
second of every day. Be love, crawl up inside of
it and approach every problem with the question
what would love do now? If you do this, fear will
never enter your life.
Appreciation. Women DO want to feel appreciated.
They just don’t want to be obsessed over. Guys,
show interest in a woman, and make her feel
beautiful and wanted - but don’t slave over her
and make her feel like you can’t live without her.
That’s just pathetic, and drives women away.
Don’t lie. A woman can forgive a lot of things
but she won’t put up with a snake in the grass
liar. If once she caught you that you lied her
she would never have more trust in you. Lie to a
woman you are dissing her. Tell the truth, you
live to play another day.
Hug her. Hug her in the morning, hug her before
you leave to work, e-mail her a hug and hug her
ten times when you get home. You must make her
feel loved and protected.
Smile. Women don't like boring men .Be someone
who smiles, who doesn't take life too seriously,
who lets loose. That shows a lot more value than
a guy who’s stiff and serious - even if he is
good looking or wealthy.
A woman want a man with a purpose. It's not
necessary to have a lot of money and a great car
but they do want to be headed towards success.
They do want to living up to your potential.
So, as a summary women like to be understood,
happiness, respect and they also want honesty.
But, as the time goes by, the woman wishes change
because she is setting new goals. Why men can’t
figure women out is because they are a
masterpiece in progress.
