While there are fine boys out there that possess good qualities, there are others that you just have to avoid if you love yourself and you do not want to be heartbroken just anytime soon.
There all sorts of fine guys scattered on the surface of the earth. Each of them have their own sugar in their tank. The ones you can date, the ones you would love to fall in love with, the ones you would like to get married to and spend the rest of your life with.
While there are fine boys out there that possess good qualities, there are others that you just have to avoid if you love yourself and you do not want to be heartbroken just anytime soon. These type of guys are never serious with you because they have an ulterior motive. You just have to run faraway from them because there is bound to be tears along the line. Most of them usually have some qualities in common and this might help you identify them easily.
The Ghost
This is the type of guy who breezes into your life with so much energy that he instantaneously knocks you off your feet [in a sweet way of course]. He turns you on, excites your mind, lights your body on fire with something as simple as a smile.
The attraction you'll feel with this guy will be such a powerful force, almost blinding. It'll be mindblowing but it won't last. It never does with this kind of guy and what makes it extremely terrible is the way he'll get out of it.
He'll just be gone like that - as suddenly as he came. No announcements, no goodbyes. Nothing.
The coded players
Instead of stating plainly that all he wants is sex and nothing more, this is the guy who would rather make it look like he wants more. He sells you fake dreams and phony promises just to keep getting the good-good until he no longer wants it.
He's a fine boy and he's scum plainly because he dishonestly exploits women who would only engage in sex as a relationship benefit to someone they feel mentally and emotionally connected to.
Manipulating genius
This is the one that knows he won't love you back but leads you on with relationship things. He's so convincing at it that it feels real. He manipulates you all the while knowing he has no love to give. In time, this situation feels like a real relationship. You might be finding yourself making him meals, relating with him as a girlfriend, doing girlfriend things with him, despite knowing he has other plans that do not involve you.
The difference between him and the coded booty call guy is that while the former is more about the sex, he robs you of a lot more. He's actually kinda worse.
